Loneliness

It's a big deal and all, for most people. What is loneliness? It's feeling that there is something outside of ourselves that will make us happy and/or complete. The union between opposites is the way toward harmony in this universe. The body is the way. So it's not ridiculous to feel a yearning toward the other. If your yearning is toward a member of humanity that makes you feel special and you feel special about this person, there's nothing wrong with that. But the only healthy way to look at this is to see this dream come true as a way of being near that which exudes the very qualities of yourself that you wish to express and accept. Society is divisive. We separate our children from birth with ideas about what a man and a woman must be.

We feel lacking in our complete self because we are separated from our other side at birth.